Sunday, December 22, 2024

Psychological Self-Defense

 

The Science of Life: Ayurveda ∙ Yoga ∙ Physics
Vedic Psychology

 
Valid Response Is The Only Response To Life In The Moment

Ayurveda and Yoga are the older versions of Physics, all of which are the science and study of the truth of how the world works, including the understanding of Vedic Psychology and the 3 root causes of disease, which includes right relationships and appropriate responses to life.

The highest form of Yoga is Karma Yoga, which means, right action, and Ayurveda and Yoga explain we must do “right action”, meaning action that will not cause a reaction, so, in a world of people acculturated to scurrying to know what to do, and doing, when firstly, we need to know what not to do. 

Ayurveda, Yoga and Physics are root cause systems looking at the mechanisms at play for how all things work through interaction and the root causes of disease, which explain their valid and legitimate responses. We do this from a state of Veda, to know the inner and outer landscape, understanding life and nature from the roots, and how to not do or suggest anything that would cause a reaction. 

Ayurveda and Yoga also explain Veda or true knowing beyond ordinary perception, that comes from the experience of unity and the intelligent interconnection of all things, which means there is always a reaction to anything, like the game of dominoes, or throwing a pebble into the lake that creates ripples, and physics explains that every action has a reaction, E=MC2, so everything you do in life creates a ripple and when you are spiritually aware, it means you know the obstacles to true unity and you also thereby know that you always have the choice to cause a reaction or not. Reactions, in the moment, are most often valid, legitimate and expected as part of the cycle of life and to stop them is suppression and to invalidate them is unjust and lacks empathy and awareness.

A narcissist sees life through the perspective of themselves and their needs, wants and desires without the ability for self-reflection or adjustment. They typically blame others for a legitimate response to their selfish and dominating and often damaging behavior, to anyone or thing not allowing them to do whatever they want by steam rolling over anything or anyone that may be perceived to be in their way, and then they flip the legitimate response of their perceived obstacle into the scapegoat. Most targets won’t even realize the root of the situation at hand and attempt to defend themselves, which is then also turned against them, using spiritual bypassing or gaslighting them into submission. The perpetrators don’t give a hoot about the resulting confusion and self-doubt to their victims, and that is part of the method of unraveling them. When their scapegoat has finally learned the lessons and built healthy boundaries with legitimate responses, it may just be the narcissists’ karmic moment, but the narcissist will always invalidate it, turn it around and blame the scapegoat for taking care of themselves in the jungle of the narcissist, this takes the form of spiritual by passing, passive aggression, and gaslighting.

Spiritual by passing uses spiritual ideology to gaslight and both are forms of violence, which goes against the first and most important tenant of yoga, ahimsa, or nonviolence, which is often misunderstood and over simplified and actually weaponized against the fall guy, yet it is part of the modern day yogic culture, family systems, work environments and other places, due to culturalization or normalization within a group system, and when a bunch of fish are all in the fish bowl together, none of them know they are in water, except the one who jumps out and can then look in from afar.

They are usually the “truth tellers” who become the scapegoats for all the other fish who feel strong in their pact of fishery, following the one who is most charismatic and resourced, though often like the wizard of Oz, only a few see behind the curtain.

Jump out and join me in the real-world journey of natural healing by including self-reflection, not self-absorption, to the truth not deception, as the path to authenticity and long-term healing, for ourselves and each other, and let’s all live our best lives in 2025. Are you going to let another year pass you by?